Have you ever imagined, the day David wrote Psalms 23? Was it an easy day, when everything went on smoothly? I don't think so. The situation could be very uneasy, then there came out a song of trust to God. Many times, the most beautiful song, deep in meaning, is birthed out of brokenness.
When your dream is shattered because of unavoidable situation, no one is against you. But when your self-image is shattered because of an abusive word (even with one word), then someone is against your self image.
I begin to realize about the essence of human's life. I begin to realize that the beginning of human life is a gift, either later on he/she will treasure it or not by what he/she does in this earthly living. In knowing the fact about human's spirit, by and by, God helped me to sweep away my grieving.
God uses many ways to show that He is there, He is not far away to comfort me...even in my past grieving
process. It was so painful for a mother like me, to be in a temporary separation with my late baby girl. But finally, by and by, God gradually changed my heart. I finally could admit that she would be safer in God's hand. God is her father through eternity and His protection and love is so perfect.
The way each person copes with grieving process, I believe, is unique. I was a mother with a mark "Fragile, handle with care". But I am what I am today because of His grace alone and nothing but God's grace.